Love and finances do not always feel like they belong in the same sentence, but the strongest relationships are built on trust, communication, and shared goals. This Valentine’s season, take time to reconnect not just with each other, but with your financial future as a team.

Here are five powerful ways to strengthen your money relationship and build healthy financial habits that last all year.

1. Set Shared Goals That Inspire Both of You
A strong financial partnership starts with a clear vision of where you are headed. Sit down together and talk about your dreams, both big and small.

At SRFFCU, we want to be with you through each phase of life. Whether you are financing a vehicle, planning the dream wedding, buying your first home, or working toward retirement, we are here to help you through each stage of life.

Examples include:
• Buying your first (or next) home
• Starting a family
• Building a larger emergency fund
• Saving for a vacation
• Planning for long term financial security

Why it works: Couples who set shared goals tend to feel more united and motivated. When you know what you are working toward, everyday financial decisions become easier and less stressful.

2. Understand Each Other’s Spending Styles
Everyone spends differently, and that is okay. The important part is understanding why.

One partner may be the saver while the other is the spontaneous spender. Instead of viewing this as a conflict, use it as a starting point for building balance.

Try reviewing your monthly spending together:
• What do you each prioritize?
• Where do you feel comfortable cutting back?
• What expenses matter most to each of you?

SRFFCU Tip: Many couples find success by assigning “personal spending money” in their budget to keep things fair and stress free.

3. Build Savings as a Team (Not Just for Emergencies)
Saving as a couple helps build confidence, stability, and peace of mind.

Here are smart savings categories to consider:
• Emergency fund: 3 to 6 months of expenses
• Goal based savings: vacations, renovations, wedding fund
• Long term savings: retirement and investments

Start small if needed. Consistency matters more than size.

4. Communicate Honestly and Regularly About Money
Money can be an emotional topic, so create a judgment free space where both partners feel heard.

Try scheduling a monthly “money date” to discuss:
• Bills
• Budget updates
• Savings progress
• Upcoming expenses
• Any financial stress or questions

When money conversations become routine instead of reactive, relationships strengthen and financial confidence grows.

5. Celebrate Your Wins Together
Hit a savings milestone? Pay off a credit card? Stick to your budget for three months straight?

Celebrate it.

Your financial journey should feel rewarding, not restrictive. Whether it is a small treat, a special date night, or simply acknowledging your hard work, celebrating progress helps keep you both motivated.

When your finances are aligned, your relationship grows stronger too. SRFFCU is here to support your journey with member focused tools and resources designed to help couples build a secure financial future together.